mind you , the guys i met were older (30 and over) and the chinese guys my friends dated were usually younger so it is an unfair comparsion. Having been in Beijing more or less since July of 2010 (with frequent travel to other locales, of course), I've gotten pretty acquainted with the dating scene here in China.Because of China’s rigorous college entrance examination, dating is rarely tolerated among high school students. That doesn’t mean that Chinese teens don’t have high school crushes or even relationships (mostly secret ones).But in general, Chinese students leave high school with a lot less romantic experience than their American counterparts.In 1st tier cities they were older, had either divorced, had children, or were just looking for what they missed out on in their youth.In 2nd and 3rd tier cities, they were younger and were looking to experiment.But, under no circumstances, should you mention sex while dating Chinese women.It is considered very vulgar and rude in Chinese dating.
In fact, I moonlight as a rather well-connected man-about-town in the expat community here (or rather, I was doing so earlier this year… Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.99% of the single foreign men i met , who aren't seeking a long term relationship do not manipulate women. They would always reply "what does it matter if I am married". they simple have a "pay as you go" gf or they frequent bar girls or massage parlors or they find a nice "leftover" woman . whether they are involved in an out of town relationship/married or just players.this is actually more common in china then in america.There are so many variables in describing dating between cities so i won't bother trying however, if you are relatively attractive, tall, have some cultural sensitivity, have a job, and at least suggest you are a prospective partner, then casual dating is easy.