Working overtime alot - he has a lot of child support to pay. But ladies, when you have that gut that something isn't right, normally you're right. "Oh I was with my brother the whole time, we walked out together." when asked who the woman was (incase it's just an old friend he ran into - hence, still making excuses) he flipped out, got extremely defensive. Tried to make me feel guilty for being there and he left me. My point is for all of you that are in this boat, please take a step back and look at your relationship with this man without the blinders on. If your divorced man with kids doesn't want you in his entire life, then you're better than that. His child support payments are so high he could never afford to live on his own.
No children visits - he's just not ready for that step, not sure how to intermingle his new g/f with his kids. You deserve someone who wants you included in everything he does. Don't let him use you up until you have nothing left to give. So basically I"m stuck with him and this unfinished house until it can become ready for sale and then we can go our separate ways (hopefully) I cannot afford to take a bath on this house!! If you see a guy with kids RUN as fast as you can in the opposite direction. i see u spent alot of your time wanting to meet his kids,which is something that i wouldnt have done.cause he have to take things slow when it comes to that.u cant rush that.i know cause i have to kids which r girls and im also going through a for me thats a scary alot of crazy ppl out there and u have to be u didnt make things even better for urself by showing up at the bar.
They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner.Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution. There is such a difference between what is available for men and woman. What I find most interesting at this point is the whole dating scene. remembers the conversation she had with her two sons following one of their regular visits with herex-husband.