It's like switching lights on and off: When it's sunny outside, you don't need extra lighting in a room.But when it becomes darker, doing things inside without lights on is rather impractical.But – once again, what they are thinking, those guys?Here are 15 of various thoughts that enter their heads.I had seen an ad on television late one night for a telephone personals service. To be fair, dating as a woman of any size is often It’s like a sexual Serengeti out there, and it often feels like every zebra for herself. First of all, there’s the language: how am I going to talk about my body – BBW, plus size, fat, curvy?Then there’s the fear of rejection, something I feel super acutely as a big woman because I grew up being told I was too big to be desirable.
The idea of getting to know someone over a series of awkward meals and otherwise mundane encounters while you are both trying really hard not to get food on your clothes or burp is just stressful.
“You’re such a cute little thing,” James said, as he draped his arms around me in line at the movies.
A week later we were walking across 23rd street holding hands.
It is even more interesting, then, what they think about it.
Although each person is understandably different, some of the ideas about it ought to be typical.