She explains how to be proactive and to create fabulous dating opportunities and relationships with or without dating agencies.
Step-by-step prompts and workouts enable the reader to design an individual strategy for this right away.
They can be endlessly fascinating and even more frustrating. And yet you still say you want a man who is smarter than you are. Sounds like a pretty exhausting relationship, doesn’t it? It does mean that you need to accept men who are not in the 98th percentile of intelligence, and recognize that there are plenty of amazing, bright, relationship-oriented men who may not be smarter than you.
They have enough information and ammunition to be impossible to argue with. That does NOT mean that you are going to find yourself with a man who has never read a newspaper, who has no interest in foreign travel, or who can’t keep up with you and your friends.
Find out how to: Mary shares what she has learned from observation of intelligent and attractive women who have succeeded in finding their man.
These women emerge as totally different in their approach to those who fail.
Their mind-sets, their strategies and their skills can all be learned and this is where Smart Dating: how to find your man comes into its own.
The dearth of commitment minded men and opportunities to meet them in today’s society forms the background to the book.
That’s when he’ll ask you for commitment – when he can’t stand the thought of you being with anyone else.
This is because men approach commitment differently than we do.
It’s easy for us to imagine the wedding dress and to scribble his last name next to yoursimagine the benefits of a relationship.
But men normally take a bit of time to come to a conclusion about where a relationship is headed. And the best way to help him do that – and make sure you take the time YOU need to make a sound decision about him – is to keep dating other men.
When a man can’t take you for granted because he sees you’re keeping busy and not putting all your hopes in him, it motivates him to move closer to you.