I went downstairs to check on the laundry, and when I walked into the room, I saw Brian going down on my best friend.
Sarah was sitting on the washing machine with her pants around her ankles, and Brian was going at it.
If people insist on an explanation for your appearing stressed, all you need to say is that at the time, there were things going on in your life (divorce) that caused you to feel stressed. Don't worry so much about how others will react to your relationship with Jeremy.Take it one day at a time as you would with any relationship and see how things go.Just remember that it's you and Jeremy in the relationship and no one else needs to be in on everything.I know that a divorce takes more than a year to become final, so I'm guessing that when you started sleeping with Jeremy, you were at least separated from your husband with the divorce in the works.Even if your first "encounter" happened before you and your husband actually started living apart, there must have been some talk of divorce/separation at that time since one doesn't wake up one day and say, "I don't want to be married to you anymore, so move out by tonight." Once separated, you are free to date, so what you do in your private life is really none of your ex-husband's business.Community Talk makes it easy for you to find relevant, informative articles from First Wives World's leading contributors, all in one place.